Two controversial books from the 1960s strongly influenced my thinking to this day: "One Dimensional Man" by political philosopher Herbert Marcuse and "Culture Against Man" by anthropologist Jules Henry.
Marcuse wrote: "A comfortable, smooth, reasonable, democratic unfreedom prevails in advanced civilization." Psychologist R. D. Laing noted that this phenomenon extends to the personal/family level and he called it "the mystification of experience."
Marcuse might have written that we are mystified BECAUSE our lack of freedom feels comfortable and seems reasonable in spite of our democratic ideals.
Other observations by Marcuse:
"The highest productivity of labor can be used for the perpetuation of labor" -- a good description of "labor-saving" devices and electronic entertainment which only increase the need for more labor.
"... the most efficient industrialization can serve the restriction and manipulation of needs." -- the FALSE needs of consumerism.
"Domination -- in the guise of affluence and liberty -- extends to all spheres of private and public existence, integrates all authentic opposition, absorbs all alternatives."
Marcuse remarked that the only way for an individual to be economically free would be if he were free of the economy. This is virtually impossible in today's world economy.
Henry noted that culture was originally invented to assist man in his battle for survival in nature. It allowed humans to successfully adapt to an unfriendly environment and thrive. Now humans must "adapt" to culture itself or risk being classified as criminal, insane, stupid or a drain on society.
Henry described our public school system as "the pathetic surrender of babes" to the cultural demands of a competitive consumer society. What students really learn is how to sit at desks for hours, listening to boring lectures and being pigeonholed as designated winners and losers without having a nervous breakdown or violently rebelling. The hidden lesson is patience in the face of absurdity -- something they will need to obtain and keep a job in the labor marketplace.