(in the title you might recognise a line from a Placebo song)
Do you ever feel like you don't know which direction to take... like there are too many things you want to do and you don't really know how, or which one to choose or what to do first... It's so confusing.
It's not surprising as this is a kind of state many people feel at the end of their studies, but it's really stressful.
I've finished my exams, I need to write a final paper which I want to be ready by November to get into the graduation session of late November (which actually mean I should be doing more about it...). But I already feel a complete void under my feet. I'm looking for a job from Septemeber till after I graduate, I don't want already a job which is 'forever' because I want to do many things after my graduation.
I want to apply for a trainee abroad thingy, then I want to see if I find some more trainees abroad, or stuff like that, to spend some periods abroad, in various places, then I want to find a job of pretty much any sort in England and see if I can survive there and consequently look for a better job...
But this gets all so mixed in my mind, what should I do first, what if I get stuck here for longer than I planned and then I get too old to apply for some things... I feel I want to do everything and now, I can't see myself doing the same thing in the same place for more than a few months, and at the same time I wonder if this is really what I want or just a dream...
I could study more if I wanted, but at the moment I have no motivation for it... student life is great, but I'm old enough to take my responsibilities and find a real job... otherwise I'll be a student till I'm 30 and not do all the things I mentioned above. I don't exclude starting my studies again at some point in my life, but not within the next year at least.
These days I'm sort of feeling like University was a waste of time. I'm about to graduate in English & Russian, though my Russian is still poor and I'll never be fluent in it and I don't care about it that much anymore... I want to live in England, so chances are that I'll end up forgetting Russian anyway... I started that thinking I was doing it for myself first, but the enthusiasm and interest I had when I started are pretty much gone. I want to learn more langauges and more things but I don't want to study & study & study... Maybe if I hadnt spent 4 years (including a wasted one) at University now I'd have more time to pursue my dreams, but at the same time at 19-20 I didnt feel ready to take some steps like that anyway...
Ok I just felt like venting the weird feeling of confusion that I feel... I just don't know what will be next, and how exactly I want it to be and how to make it be... and what I really want to do in my life Probably nothing extraordinary, but it really feels like there are no certainties left...