Just got updated on this issue:
http://www.online-literature.com/for...=gender+of+god...is it still in the forum rules then ? otherwise some minor points on this issue.
To clarify, in islamic doctrines there is no Muslim, Christian or Jewish God- there is just God, One and Only.
Also God, sometimes, refers to Himself as 'We" in Quran but that We is not in plural sense. Islam is clear on this issue that He has no gender, whose masculine styles of speech lies in the grammatical form of the original language of Quran. which is arabic.
I do not know which religion or which God you worship since it is irrelevent to me ( since you are free to believe in denying the concept of God being genderless) worship God in ,but to clarify it is not only Muslims and Quran which refer to God as He but since you are interwested in discussing this topic I could still have a healthy discussion with you in private or give you some links if you want, if its not against the rules.