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Comedian's gardening thread put me in mind of my Mum. She's a gardener, untrained and instinctive. Her house is on an ex council estate that boasts an example of every kind of The English Garden within it. A common “look” there is overgrown-with-attractive-rotting-sofa-feature. another favourite concept is the weedy- lawn- full-of-kids- toys. Getting more and more popular is the flagged-over-for-parking, also the wooden decking-with-outdoor-pots-and-built-in-barbie mark the encroachments of the buy-to-let entrepreneur.

My mother's house is unmistakeable, though practically invisible on account of the verdure that surrounds it. The neatly clipped front hedge and the boundary fences are - in an almost perfect metaphor of their life together,- my dad's responsibility. Within them, but barely contained, mum's garden runs free, her personality and desires made manifest in bursts of vegitation.

Walking up her garden path is an adventure, you get the feeling that if you stray from it you will be lost forever. Laburnum, Lilac and Flowering Currant overhang , clumps of Saxifrage and Camomile encroach onto the trodden way. Fuschia and Hebe brush a little too close for comfort. Every plant thrives and competes, each one seems to be straining to outshine its nieghbour. Drifts of pastle colours twist and merge together with blood red persicara exploding like fireworks above them. You have travelled about 6 paces.

Rather than try to describe the whole garden I'll cut to the most suprising thing about it:- My mum never seems to do any gardening at all! Her horticultural technique involves giving a young seedling a word or two of encouragement as she passes, letting her charges know they're appreciated, and moving anything that tells her it's unhappy . There is no seed she cannot persuade to germinate, every cutting will strike if she asks it to. You could say she has green fingers, but its more than that.

I reckon she is really Flora, goddess of flowers and fertility in the avatar of a little old lady. I imagine the flowers bowing down to touch the hem of her dress as she walks through her bower and new life bursting out of the ground in her wake.

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Updated 05-08-2011 at 02:55 PM by prendrelemick

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  1. Virgil's Avatar
    What a wonderful portrait of your mother!! I wish it were as easy as just providing a word of encouragement. I bet your mum does a bit of work. I would love to see her garden. I have a similar mom, by the way.
  2. The Comedian's Avatar
    Lovely blog entry -- I'm particularly fond of this line "Laburnum, Lilac and Flowering Currant overhang , clumps of Saxifrage and Camomile encroach onto the trodden way" -- I'm a total sucker for names of plants and natural description. I also like how your post portrays both garden and your mother as reflections of each other.

    Reading this was time well spent.
  3. Lokasenna's Avatar
    Lovely imagery you have there... its a rather wonderful portrait, full of a quiet compassion.

    Heh, my own mother is into gardening, but she looks rather undignified by the end of it... brambles in her hair, her "I Like Beer" T-shirt stained with mud...
  4. qimissung's Avatar
    Your mother and the garden both sound like they would be lovely to visit.
  5. prendrelemick's Avatar
    Thanks for those comments.
    Virgil. I can honestly say I have never caught my mum doing any conventional gardening.
    I love to give her a plant for her birthday, perhaps a limp supermarket seedling. She holds it up and says " O you are a pretty thing, we'll have to find a nice place for you."
    The next time I call it'll be thriving.