happy valentine for the singles
by, 02-14-2009 at 09:19 AM (1175 Views)
happy valentine's day! i want to give my best wishes to all the couples around the world, even if some claim that they do not celebrate because it is a commercial day. and yes i know that many people say that they do not need a special day in order to celebrate their love, and they are right. but really, who does so? few people remember to express their admiration and their love to the one they love. so this day is good for those who don't exchange cards full of sweet words, poems, declarations of love, teddy-bears, rings, flowers, chocolates or kisses under the light of candles everyday....
today i am really happy, because although i am single, i have three of my best friends who are not. and who are really happy with the one that has stolen their heart- or at least is still trying to still it what can i say, people don't fall head over heels for someone easily these days it must be due to the economic crisis- they want to save some feelings for a rainy day perhaps and i am also happy for everyone who has found his/her valentine!
but today is not only a celebration for couples....today we celebrate love. we celebrate the best that some people manage to bring out of us. we celebrate the act of being in love...not necessarily with a physical person, but with love itself. because love means life. love is life. and life is the expression of love- something a bit more philosophical i just thought but am not going to analyze here.
and now some piece of advice that i am sure most of you already know but do not really act according to: live for the moment and make some dreams for the future. enjoy the love that you now have. declare your feelings without thinking that you can do it in the future. because future is unpredictable and you might not be given the chance. don't feel vunerable in saying 'i love you'. it is probably one of the few things that can make us feel secure-not just with the person we are with, but with ourselves as well. make relationships that you feel that can have a future. i do not mean marriage. just future. relationships that can make you dream of being together tomorrow, or for ever. because that might mean that the one you have is the one for you. it might mean that you have found someone you can deeply love and thus, become a better person.
be with someone who makes you dream of tomorrow, and live with him like there is no tomorrow. love deeply, cause you deserve to feel your heart beating faster. love deeply cause we all deserve to hear someone's heart beat fast. cause everyone needs and deserves to feel the magic of love surrounding us.
if you love to love, then i certainly love you! and don't forget to send some flowers or a card to your beloved- they will adore you even more. and do not hesitate to express your love to someone that might not even know your existance- but i am sure they do. it is worth a try.
PS: thank you for the poem. it was so lovely. if i knew who you are, i would ask you to make me a marriage proposal (who are you really? i am SOOOO curious!!!!!!)