A Late Epiphany
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, 11-16-2007 at 07:33 PM (2189 Views)
Tonight God let me know something as I was rushing out the door with all my things in hand - trying to get out before the future in laws caught the tears in my eyes. I learned that it is not within my right to try and change someone I love, to think I can change someone, or to hope that because that person loves me...ingrained beliefs and feelings he has carried for years will suddenly change. A person has the right to be anyone he wants to be and to think, do, and believe what he will. Who am I to try and change that? Afterall, don't we all want to have that right? The only choice I have in that matter is whether or not I can marry that person based on what I know.
But maybe it is a little too late to have realized that.
Not too sure where to go after that piece of information...other than, if you are not married yet, don't get a cell phone plan or internet service that depends on your relationship...you will find yourself without a means of communication.
I am not getting married.