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D.S. Poorman
04-02-2010, 12:01 AM
Did anybody else not like Vronsky for much of this novel and then just at the end, when he's at the train station, they choked all up and felt horrible for him? I've never had such a wide and sudden swing for a character in literature before. It was very fascinating. Of course, if you liked Vronsky throughout then this phenomena would have been stillborn... But did anyone else have this powerful emotive moment for him that blind sided you?

johnw1
04-02-2010, 06:52 AM
That's Tolstoy's magic - he doesn't lazily or judgmentally create 'good' or 'bad' characters but brings you to a point where you understand and empathise with them. I'm not sure my feelings about Vronsky were so strongly antagonistic as yours. I saw him as someone with a certain nobility and moral code which he stuck to steadfastly, the problem was that the ideals he had of being honourable were clearly insufficient - a product of the sphere he moved in. By the end you could see clearly he wasn't just an amoral chancer but had integrity and sensitivity. But I also felt sorry for him at the end; after all he has had everything taken from him and his life's now swallowed up with remorse and probably anger... I was more suprised and moved by the development of Karenin as he kept developing suprising new depths of feeling and generosity from a unpromising start where he just came across as cold and moralistic. I felt intensely sorry for him at times after Anna's illness and his forgiveness of her.

D.S. Poorman
04-02-2010, 09:28 PM
The thing with Vronsky was that even before he knew Anna's discontent he seemed to believe that it was fair to woo this married woman. As well, he was far too self-satisfied and proud and, undoubtedly, felt rather entitled about everything. I'm not saying those aren't crucial and important traits (well, not the entitlement) but everything in moderation, eh? As for the book in general, I certainly appreciated and was, indeed, in respect for Tolstoy's gift of building this expansive 19th century Russian world that crossed all personal dispositions and public classes and yet managed to wash out any blatant moral or social adjudication from his lofty perch as the creator of it all. From what I've read, what seems to have often spoiled the novel's magic for some readers was Levin's mental engagement and reverence for the peasantry and their rustic struggles and connection with the land. I loved those pages of the book as much as any of it and found them riveting both within the story itself and on behalf of the detail of the bucolic vivification by Tolstoy's craft level. (But I also enjoyed the cetology chapter in Moby Dick so go figure, haha!) Anyhow, back to Vronsky... I didn't care for him (or Anna for that matter) in the sympathetic sense though I found them to be wonderful characters. Of course, Tolstoy seems to make the magic that Anna wields over people to be one which is conjured to life upon being within her presence as is evidenced by Levin's unwilling enrapture to her near the end of the novel. That said, I am still a bit dumbfounded by the evisceration I suffered, after nearly 800 pages of being unmoved, by Vronsky's fate and the vicissitude of his pride and potency into apathy. It just gutted me out of nowhere. I want to address your thoughts concerning Karenin as they mirror some of my own but I'll save that for later.

johnw1
04-03-2010, 07:38 AM
The thing with Vronsky was that even before he knew Anna's discontent he seemed to believe that it was fair to woo this married woman. As well, he was far too self-satisfied and proud and, undoubtedly, felt rather entitled about everything. I'm not saying those aren't crucial and important traits (well, not the entitlement) but everything in moderation, eh? As for the book in general, I certainly appreciated and was, indeed, in respect for Tolstoy's gift of building this expansive 19th century Russian world that crossed all personal dispositions and public classes and yet managed to wash out any blatant moral or social adjudication from his lofty perch as the creator of it all. From what I've read, what seems to have often spoiled the novel's magic for some readers was Levin's mental engagement and reverence for the peasantry and their rustic struggles and connection with the land. I loved those pages of the book as much as any of it and found them riveting both within the story itself and on behalf of the detail of the bucolic vivification by Tolstoy's craft level. (But I also enjoyed the cetology chapter in Moby Dick so go figure, haha!) Anyhow, back to Vronsky... I didn't care for him (or Anna for that matter) in the sympathetic sense though I found them to be wonderful characters. Of course, Tolstoy seems to make the magic that Anna wields over people to be one which is conjured to life upon being within her presence as is evidenced by Levin's unwilling enrapture to her near the end of the novel. That said, I am still a bit dumbfounded by the evisceration I suffered, after nearly 800 pages of being unmoved, by Vronsky's fate and the vicissitude of his pride and potency into apathy. It just gutted me out of nowhere. I want to address your thoughts concerning Karenin as they mirror some of my own but I'll save that for later.
Firstly, your criticisms of Vronsky are, of course, fair. I'm as instinctively against having an affair with a women behind her husband's back as the next person - and in Vronsky's position it was particularly bad since he went to such trouble to manouvre the situation, chase her hundreds of miles across the country and, as you say, he wasn't aware she was unhappy (was she even?) or that her husband was unsuitable for her. I deliberately tried to suspend immediate moral judgment while reading the book and I think this is to some extent what Tolstoy is trying to do as well in the way he develops the characters so that we can understand the perspective from which they come and can understand and empathise even if their actions are against our own moral code. With Vronsky, I didn't feel strong antipathy towards him because he was at least consistent with his own sense of moral values - this quote sums him up fairly well:

'In his Petersburg world all people were divided into utterly opposed classes. One, the lower class, vulgar, stupid, and, above all, ridiculous people, who believe that one husband ought to live with the one wife whom he has lawfully married; that a girl should be innocent, a woman modest, and a man manly, self-controlled, and strong; that one ought to bring up one's children, earn one's bread, and pay one's debts; and various similar absurdities. This was the class of old-fashioned and ridiculous people. But there was another class of people, the real people. To this class they all belonged, and in it the great thing was to be elegant, generous, plucky, gay, to abandon oneself without a blush to every passion, and to laugh at everything else.' - Chapter 34.

Basically, Vronsky has a code (flawed) that he sticks to and has real integrity - remember how much he hate's Anna's deception of her husband - in fact this is what causes their downfall, many in that society had affairs but Anna and Vronsky couldn't cope with bear the deceit and this is why she is rejected by 'good society'. Vronsky deserves some respect at least for these qualities I feel.

I too enjoyed the parts where Levin works on his estate, especially the section where he joins in with the haymaking and the deep satisfaction he gets from the work. Actually this was one of the stand out passages for me (It reminds me, by the way, of Conrad and his depictions of the relief and satisfaction one finds in intense physical labour).

D.S. Poorman
04-04-2010, 05:33 AM
Yes, Vronsky was absolutely shaped by the world into which he was born. I'd have an aversion to the elitism of that entire class as, no doubt, Tolstoy himself did. But he does well in his writing to merely present us with "realism" (as I believe it's "officially" called) and to avoid proselytizing against the privileges of the upper class. And certainly, it makes for a great story, ha! Again, as you pointed out, he does well to just create these people so that we, the readers, are eventually invested in them as whole persons instead of as symbols of this-and-that to be categorized into convenient reactionary compartments. Thus, my own sort of unwilling snare into Vronsky's melancholic fate. Which, I can't say enough, has affected me rather profoundly. Art to me is most valuable when it lingers in my mind and it is, almost exclusively, this trait which establishes the value of any given work to me. That said, as much for this one moment as for several others within Anna Karenin this book is most fascinating to me.
As to whether Anna was discontent? It seems to me that her husband was rather too clerical and sensible and devoid of passion and warmth for her own constitution. That was my impression. However, you pointed out that shift in Karenin's disposition during that period of Anna's sickness and indeed that was all quite surprising to witness. After about the halfway point in the book I was becoming rather anxious to get a grip on the epicenter of the cryptic quote under the book's title on the title page: "Vengeance is mine and I will repay". Around about page 500ish I thought I had it pinned down and that the vengeance Tolstoy was speaking of would be Karenin's and that he would somehow use his connections to manipulate Hell down upon Vronsky and Anna. Then after that particular passage in the book where he goes all soft by the side of Anna's sickbed I had to let that idea go. Little did I know the vengeance was Anna's and that it wouldn't be until page 800 that I would get to know that! It's like having to get through 95% of Moby Dick before you get to meet the infamous title character.
Yes, the parts where Levin is working the hay with his workers was wonderful. And this isn't exactly working the land but there was a passage in very early spring when Levin's brother has come to visit him on his property. They are laying at the edge of some woods next to a field and Levin is watching the flora just feet away and he sees a blade of grass actually growing before his very eyes and he revels in the moment. The writing in that passage set the hair on my arms up. It's the finery of such passages in the midst of this vast expansive story that I find to be just riveting and enlivening.
I have to confess, it's been a loooooong time since I've read Conrad so I won't pretend to be able to make the connection you've made at the end of your post.

Gladys
04-08-2010, 05:21 AM
Around about page 500ish I thought I had it pinned down and that the vengeance Tolstoy was speaking of would be Karenin's and that he would somehow use his connections to manipulate Hell down upon Vronsky and Anna. Then after that particular passage in the book where he goes all soft by the side of Anna's sickbed I had to let that idea go. Little did I know the vengeance was Anna's and that it wouldn't be until page 800 that I would get to know that!

Anna's vengeance! In what sense?

Surely "Vengeance is mine and I will repay" alludes to God's almighty vengeance, for both Anna and Vronsky pay dearly in the latter half of the novel: Anna, at least, with her life.


Romans 12:19___Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.

D.S. Poorman
04-08-2010, 08:11 AM
Well... I always tell myself I should read the Bible sometime. If only for the literary experience. I might have been able to put that together?

But to your question, I was left only to conclude that Anna hurling herself in front of the train was vengeance (and madness of course) on Vronsky for her misperception that he didn't love her or was finished loving her. It certainly did a number on him regardless. Still, it didn't feel completely satisfactory and now I know why.

But now I find it curious that the front matter in the edition I have didn't point out the source of that quote? Anyhow, live and learn.

All that said, thank you for the enlightenment. (Perhaps my embarrassment will motivate me to read that ubiquitous book now? I've got a really nice copy about five feet away on my book shelf.)

johnw1
04-08-2010, 02:58 PM
Anna's vengeance! In what sense?

Surely "Vengeance is mine and I will repay" alludes to God's almighty vengeance, for both Anna and Vronsky pay dearly in the latter half of the novel: Anna, at least, with her life.

Of course you're right on the origin of the quote. But I'm not really sure how it fits what happens in the novel overall; I never noticed Tolstoy developing upon the theme of the vengeance of God. In fact, since I think one of the main strengths of the book is it's lack of an overall 'message', it seems slightly odd for Tolstoy to use the quote in this way.

If there is some way of tying this in I think it is that Anna's vengeance upon Vronsky is being addressed, that it is not for her to take this role on but God's. But again, I don't see that this seeming narratorial judgment works in the context of Tolstoy's writing; it would seem far more at home in, say, a novel by Eliot or Hardy as there is a more evident didactic/moralising effort in their work.

Gladys
04-09-2010, 04:20 AM
But I'm not really sure how it fits what happens in the novel overall; I never noticed Tolstoy developing upon the theme of the vengeance of God.

I would argue that the vengeance of God is utterly familiar to Christian cultures of earlier centuries.

Tolstoy, and more so Dostoevsky, are always subtle in moral issues. Nevertheless vengeance - whether of God, of fate, of nature, or of universal justice - does descend inexorably on the adulterous couple like the ash, stones and pumice that buried ancient Pompeii and Herculanum.

D.S. Poorman
04-10-2010, 05:25 AM
Well, now I'm scratching my head. I have to fess up a bit first and say that all of my knowledge with literature is just between me and the books as I read them. I've never had an English/Russian/Brit/etc. lit class beyond high school and so I have to get what I get from pure instinct and paying attention. I'm not saying that it is different or not for anyone else as I don't know and it's rather beside the point. (Bear with me here, there is a point, haha!) But I'm saying that if someone has studied Tolstoy (or whoever) in an academic setting then there is "established knowledge", so to speak, there that I haven't had access to. All of that said, I took my slap on the wrist on good faith and that the "Vengeance is mine..." quote has been solidly determined to be utilized as foreboding of God's intervention within Anna Karenin. But perhaps I was allowing my self awareness of my biographical deficiencies and my lack of knowledge about the origin of this particular quote to put too much weight on the opinions of others. In short, is the application of this quote to the text of the book itself established in philology or is it exactly what it's become here: a matter for opinionated debate?

I'm not being argumentative or defensive nor am I offended at all. As always, I'm simply wanting to be more enlightened tomorrow than I was yesterday... (and certainly learning where the quote came from was a delight in itself.)

Gladys
04-10-2010, 08:00 AM
In short, is the application of this quote to the text of the book itself established in philology or is it exactly what it's become here: a matter for opinionated debate?

I discovered literature in recent years and, like you, I've never had an English/Russian/Brit/etc. lit class beyond high school and so I have to get what I get from pure instinct and paying attention. What's more, I tend to avoid commentaries. So, by all means, defend your view of the "Vengeance is mine..." quote, if you feel you can.

Nevertheless, I think the relevance of the opening quote is less a matter for opinionated debate than a question of textual evidence. In a nutshell: Levin is good, Vronsky and Karenin are suspect, and Anna is bad.

D.S. Poorman
04-12-2010, 11:38 PM
Ha! Well, I wasn't intending to have a pissing contest about street cred when I said I had never taken any university courses about literature. I only meant to quantify that my knowledge base is undoubtedly deficient as to the philological understandings of literature that has been embraced in the university setting. And although I recognize that those are also formed of opinions down the line in their inception I'm not so crude as to not know that author's have definitive intentions for their works when the compose them and that diligent study can excavate to relative certainly such intentions. Anyhow, I'll not bother trying to tip-toe around sounding contentious if it's going to pay no dividends...

As for the opening quote and it's relation to Anna Karenin; It would seem that the lack of acknowledgement as to the origins of the title's subscript in its use there on the page as well as no mention of those origins anywhere within the front matter of the edition of the book I have could be construed as meaningful. That being that it was usurped wholesale from the Biblical contextualization and to then be interpreted within the work itself in a secular sense and instead of the reader having to bring the weight and meanings of this proselytizing book into the broadest understanding of the new work. As you propose it, Anna Karenin would almost be some adjutant text to the Bible itself; a parable on the sins of adultery. Indeed, why not teach it in seminaries and the like?
But that all seems secondary to the more poignant aspect of the quote's usage and its realization in the narrative. That being that if the quote were simply removed from the title page there would be precious little for the reader to find within the text itself to indicate God's almighty hand at play in anything but the minutia of one of these lives. Undoubtedly Levin finds some spiritual salvation in his time throughout the novel but this fate of his appears to be a very personal matter and not something indicative to a broad public sweep of sacred "justice" doled out for sins against any commandments. The book just doesn't read as such to me. It strikes me as a more secular tale with, as the world itself unfolds, an appropriately relative amount of attention paid to religion's place in 19th century Russian living.

As well, it certainly seemed to be the very intention of Tolstoy that one aught not decide in any black and white terms such declarative truths as so-and-so is bad and so-and-so is good. It seems as if Tolstoy spend a great amount of talent and care in designing against just such an understanding. Of course, I believe a great amount of human conjecture has been spent about the tendency and need of people to safely compartmentalize the world around them as much as possible as they feel some kind of psychological vertigo if they must allow that much of reality is indeed ambiguous prior to direct experience in any given arena. Let prejudice and ignorance prevail where doubt might otherwise engender the state of mind. But that's another thread I suppose. I think I saw a philosophy board on here somewhere...

Gladys
04-13-2010, 12:50 AM
That being that it was usurped wholesale from the Biblical contextualization and to then be interpreted within the work itself in a secular sense...

I more or less agree.


As you propose it, Anna Karenin would almost be some adjutant text to the Bible itself; a parable on the sins of adultery.

A parable, yes, but one more secular than religious.


That being that if the quote were simply removed from the title page there would be precious little for the reader to find within the text itself to indicate God's almighty hand at play in anything but the minutia of one of these lives.

I can't agree with this. Tolstoy's God is bigger than Russian Orthodoxy or conventional religious piety. Levin - Tolstoy's mouthpiece - yearns and searches for God in the infinite, the eternal, but also in the minutiae of daily living. Ultimately all can see that the Almighty (the universe) avenges, while Levin is more vindicated than not.

The text that sticks in my mind is:


Romans 8:28____And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God...


As well, it certainly seemed to be the very intention of Tolstoy that one aught not decide in any black and white terms such declarative truths as so-and-so is bad and so-and-so is good. It seems as if Tolstoy spend a great amount of talent and care in designing against just such an understanding.

Hmm. The sympathetic, indulgent and self-satisfied way Tolstoy presents honest Levin in the closing pages of the novel seem decidedly 'black and white', and far more dogmatic and prescriptive than any Dostoevsky ending. I get the feeling that, through Levin, Tolstoy is flattering himself!

johnw1
04-13-2010, 05:33 PM
I can't agree with this. Tolstoy's God is bigger than Russian Orthodoxy or conventional religious piety. Levin - Tolstoy's mouthpiece - yearns and searches for God in the infinite, the eternal, but also in the minutiae of daily living. Ultimately all can see that the Almighty (the universe) avenges, while Levin is more vindicated than not.

The text that sticks in my mind is:


Romans 8:28____And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God...

Hmm. The sympathetic, indulgent and self-satisfied way Tolstoy presents honest Levin in the closing pages of the novel seem decidedly 'black and white', and far more dogmatic and prescriptive than any Dostoevsky ending. I get the feeling that, through Levin, Tolstoy is flattering himself!

Is Levin Tolstoy's mouthpiece? I know they have some things in common but I'm not sure if we can take it that far.

I'm not sure what you're saying about the quote from Romans...

I also disagree with your point about Levin at the close of the novel. I think this is not in any way smug. In fact I got the distinct feeling in reading it that Levin's sense of having somehow arrived at a comfortable position of faith in God is highly likely to be transitory. Even at this point, doubts are arising in his mind which, in that moment he feels confident will somehow sort themselves out at a later time, but, judging by his character as developed in the rest of the novel, it seems likely to be just a phase. He doesn't have the characteristics to find this kind of assurance - he's not like Kitty with her simple unquestioning belief, or like his brother with his intellectual self-confidence.

johnw1
04-13-2010, 05:33 PM
But that all seems secondary to the more poignant aspect of the quote's usage and its realization in the narrative. That being that if the quote were simply removed from the title page there would be precious little for the reader to find within the text itself to indicate God's almighty hand at play in anything but the minutia of one of these lives. Undoubtedly Levin finds some spiritual salvation in his time throughout the novel but this fate of his appears to be a very personal matter and not something indicative to a broad public sweep of sacred "justice" doled out for sins against any commandments. The book just doesn't read as such to me. It strikes me as a more secular tale with, as the world itself unfolds, an appropriately relative amount of attention paid to religion's place in 19th century Russian living.

As well, it certainly seemed to be the very intention of Tolstoy that one aught not decide in any black and white terms such declarative truths as so-and-so is bad and so-and-so is good. It seems as if Tolstoy spend a great amount of talent and care in designing against just such an understanding.

I very much agree with this. To see the quote as central to the novel in the sense of God exacting his vengeance upon the sins of the protagonists doesn't seem right to me at all. This is not a religious parable (as I read it) but, as you say, a secular tale with the results emanating from the decisions, with all their complexities, inconsistencies etc, of the characters portrayed.

Gladys
04-14-2010, 12:03 AM
I'm not sure what you're saying about the quote from Romans...

Merely that 'all things work together for good' for honest Levin, whereas God's wrath is visited on the two evildoers.


I also disagree with your point about Levin at the close of the novel. I think this is not in any way smug.

I guess I object more to the narrator and his portrayal of Levin than to Levin himself.

johnw1
04-14-2010, 09:24 AM
Merely that 'all things work together for good' for honest Levin, whereas God's wrath is visited on the two evildoers.

You see this is precisely where I disagree with this reading - I don't see that Levin is built up as 'good' versus Anna/Vronsky as 'bad' resulting in divine vengeance being exacted upon them. Anna is shown as an honest women and this is why she suffers - in comparison to other society women who have affairs but are more 'subtle' about them. Vronksy is also honest, consistent and loyal in his actions. Their relationship is emotionally powerful. The initial impulse of Karenin to justice gives way to gracious forgiveness. Is not the progress of the events more and and unfortunate than anything else? I think the narrative is the opposite of judgmental.

kelby_lake
08-02-2011, 09:02 AM
I think the vengeance is a sort of social vengeance. Anna throws away social conventions and pays the price. Either that or it is her vengeance against Karenin.

Alexander III
08-02-2011, 01:14 PM
Personally I loved Vronsky from the beginning, and at the end at the translation scene I loved him even more. Maybe this is because, I am a male who easily identifies with him and his concepts of Honor and Dignity and his types of passions, so it is easy for me to love him.

Levin on the other hand, I disliked. I did like the scenes where he was hunting with Oblonsky or cutting the grass with the peasants, but whenever he is in any social situation, I loathe him - he seems like such a fool that I could not tolerate him and I many times thought to myself that had I been in that world I would have much liked to challenge him to a dual because he was so frustrating and imbecilic at times that I found him an insult to all men. I know this response is strong, but it is how I feel towards him except for on a couple of occasion where I like him. Much like Pierre in W&P

Alexander III
08-02-2011, 01:15 PM
Also I am glad that discussion on this novel has sparked up and I do hope it lasts, as this is one novel which definitely needs more attention on this forum.

cl154576
08-02-2011, 02:43 PM
Surely "Vengeance is mine and I will repay" alludes to God's almighty vengeance, for both Anna and Vronsky pay dearly in the latter half of the novel: Anna, at least, with her life.

Could it be a sort of double vengeance? I feel like the book was definitely more than just a lecture against adultery (Tolstoy also seems to be saying something about the position of women in society, by letting Oblonsky get away with everything he does). Nobody ever fully wants to commit suicide; they are driven to it by suffering so deep their only instinct is to escape.

Maybe she went too far with her passions, so God punished her by making her jealous and bitter until she committed suicide to revenge herself on Vronsky, for what she imagined was apathy? There's never a clear indication that Vronsky felt much differently about her in the end. I think the apparent change could be due to the narration's being more often from Anna's perspective, and also from natural frustration and confusion on Vronsky's part.

About the characters – Levin I sometimes found tiresome when he was overly abstract and seemed to lose sight of concrete reality in his philosophizing, but overall I consider him a decent person. I can sympathize quite strongly with his social awkwardness.

Vronsky I didn't especially like, but I found him tolerable and admirable sometimes. To my mind a good deal of people are somewhat like Vronsky, only the narrator slightly emphasized his shortcomings. Most people don't have totally consistent and reasonable morals. I just felt a bit upset that he didn't seem to understand the significance of the relationship for her, as a woman.

Also, how deeply did Vronsky really care for her? I think there was some affection, but at times it seems to me almost as if he's flirting with her for fun, or to show off, as he did with Kitty.

kelby_lake
08-03-2011, 07:08 AM
Also I am glad that discussion on this novel has sparked up and I do hope it lasts, as this is one novel which definitely needs more attention on this forum.

I strongly agree. Unfortunately the author forums are pretty far down so no one really bothers to check them :/

kelby_lake
08-03-2011, 07:22 AM
I feel a bit sorry for Vronsky. Though his initial passion has subsided, he still remains with Anna, even though she has effectively trapped him. He could have just abandoned her once he felt that the initial passion was dwindling but he sticks by her.

With Anna, it's all or nothing. When Anna and Vronsky first get together, he talks about happiness. She acts as if her life has ended, telling Vronsky that she has nothing else in the world but him (forgetting Seriozha). As soon as Vronsky wavers, that is apathy in Anna's eyes. I always empathised with Vronsky, because no man could reciprocate the passion that Anna feels for him. Even if they initially did, it would be almost impossible to maintain.

Their situation reminds me of a phrase from Tess of The D'Urbervilles: "the cruelty of lust and the fragility of love".

kelby_lake
08-03-2011, 07:36 AM
And I love Frederic March :D

Alexander III
08-03-2011, 08:38 AM
I feel a bit sorry for Vronsky. Though his initial passion has subsided, he still remains with Anna, even though she has effectively trapped him. He could have just abandoned her once he felt that the initial passion was dwindling but he sticks by her.

With Anna, it's all or nothing. When Anna and Vronsky first get together, he talks about happiness. She acts as if her life has ended, telling Vronsky that she has nothing else in the world but him (forgetting Seriozha). As soon as Vronsky wavers, that is apathy in Anna's eyes. I always empathised with Vronsky, because no man could reciprocate the passion that Anna feels for him. Even if they initially did, it would be almost impossible to maintain.

Their situation reminds me of a phrase from Tess of The D'Urbervilles: "the cruelty of lust and the fragility of love".

Yes I agree with you, the pressure would be to much for any man. Vronsky loved her as much as a man can love a woman, but for Anna did not only out her love in Vronsky she put her entire life. She sacrificed her entire life for him, and Vronsky knew that - that is an enormous amount of pressure on anyone.

Also Even when Vronsky knows that he is trapped with Anna, I don't think he could have ever left her. Vronsky unlike Anatole (from W&P) has a strong sense of self respect and honor, his honor would have never allowed him to abandon her. In fact when she dies, I think it is his sense of wounded honor and dignity that compels him to seek death in war.

I se a lot of criticism of Vronsky but to be honest ( I say this as a guy) any women would be extremely lucky if in her life a man came to love her as much as Vronsky loved Anna.

Gladys
08-03-2011, 08:04 PM
Anna is shown as an honest women and this is why she suffers - in comparison to other society women who have affairs but are more 'subtle' about them. Vronksy is also honest, consistent and loyal in his actions. Their relationship is emotionally powerful. The initial impulse of Karenin to justice gives way to gracious forgiveness. Is not the progress of the events more and and unfortunate than anything else? I think the narrative is the opposite of judgmental.

I thoroughly agree with this assessment but ask why Anna, once the epitome of poise and discernment, disintegrated to the extent she did, while Vronksy remained steadfast. Psychologically, how the peerless Anna could sink so low and so quickly is quite beyond me.

Karenin's later softening is admirable. Oblonsky is always a little tacky. Levin and Kitty seem something of an unnecessary distraction.

cl154576
08-03-2011, 09:24 PM
I thoroughly agree with this assessment but ask why Anna, once the epitome of poise and discernment, disintegrated to the extent she did, while Vronksy remained steadfast. Psychologically, how the peerless Anna could sink so low and so quickly is quite beyond me.

I think it's once more because of her "all-or-nothing" perspective. She feels attached to Vronsky with all her life, but at the same time she is strongly attached to her morals of being an honest woman and a good mother. Vronsky doesn't have these additional factors to consider; plus, as a man, the affair even wins a certain admiration for him while for Anna there is only derision.

kelby_lake
08-04-2011, 07:33 AM
I think it's once more because of her "all-or-nothing" perspective. She feels attached to Vronsky with all her life, but at the same time she is strongly attached to her morals of being an honest woman and a good mother.

I agree with the first part, though I don't believe Anna feels a moral duty to be honest, or a good mother. Perhaps honest in the sense that she admits her feelings, but not honest as in 'morally good'. Anna is a good mother because she loves her son. He is the one part of her old life that she cannot bring herself to sacrifice. Surprising as you would have thought that Ani would be more important to her, as she loves her father and not Seriozha's.

cl154576
08-04-2011, 01:46 PM
I agree with the first part, though I don't believe Anna feels a moral duty to be honest, or a good mother. Perhaps honest in the sense that she admits her feelings, but not honest as in 'morally good'.

Sorry ... that's what I meant to say only the words were unclear. A good mother to Seryozha, and honest as in not lying about her affair or how she really feels.

Alexander III
08-05-2011, 10:11 AM
Sorry ... that's what I meant to say only the words were unclear. A good mother to Seryozha, and honest as in not lying about her affair or how she really feels.

But she wasn't a good mother, she abandoned her child - she chose to sacrifice her child instead of herself, and that is why she spiraled down into her destruction, the guilt of abandoning her child, much like (we can assume) Vronsky's spiral into self destruction occurs once Anna kills herself.

If anything is consistent in the novel, it is the theme of how internal guilt leads to self destruction. ironically Tolstoy presents us characters where only those who are awakened to life are able to feel such guilt.

kelby_lake
04-15-2012, 01:04 PM
But she wasn't a good mother, she abandoned her child - she chose to sacrifice her child instead of herself, and that is why she spiraled down into her destruction, the guilt of abandoning her child, much like (we can assume) Vronsky's spiral into self destruction occurs once Anna kills herself.

She abandons both of her children, really.

Mr Endon
04-25-2012, 05:51 AM
She abandons both of her children, really.

My thoughts exactly.

On Vromsky: I too found his last appearance in the novel pathetic, and I mean 'pathetic' both in its etymological sense (as it was meant to elicit pity) and in its contemporary sense. He seems to come across almost as a benign, suffering martyr, which is entirely at odds with the way I perceive him.

As for Vromsky as a character, I find his moral code to be incongruous with his behaviour, even after adjusting for 19th century mindset. He says he never lies so often it's like his personal mantra, and other characters and even the narrator (yes, the narrator too) seem to agree with that assertion. He says he must never lie to a man, but may do so to a woman. But what about lying by omission? Only children and disingenuous people believe omissions are just an honest way of getting away with a lie.

Besides, his widely-perceived honesty, bravery, and all those chivalric attributes crumble to bits every time he and Karenin meet. Karenin comes out on top every single time no matter how you look at it, and after their crucial confrontation in the middle of the novel Vromsky loses, to me personally as a reader, all the respect his whole intended empathic quality seems to hinge on.

kelby_lake
04-25-2012, 01:06 PM
Vronsky has a soldier's view of duty and honour rather than personal views of honour. Social duty is equally important to Karenin but he does have his own principles- he thinks that feeling jealous of Vronsky would demean Anna, and he refuses to duel with Vronsky, despite this being the social custom.

Brielle92
08-20-2012, 09:27 AM
I loathed Vronksy until this:

"She was an honorable woman who had bestowed her love upon him, and he loved her, and therefore she was in his eyes a woman who had a right to the same, or even more, respect than a lawful wife. He would have had his hand chopped off before he would have allowed himself by a word, by a hint, to humiliate her, or even to fall short of the fullest respect a woman could look for."

How could you not like Vronksy after reading that?!

kelby_lake
09-09-2012, 02:19 PM
I loathed Vronksy until this:

"She was an honorable woman who had bestowed her love upon him, and he loved her, and therefore she was in his eyes a woman who had a right to the same, or even more, respect than a lawful wife. He would have had his hand chopped off before he would have allowed himself by a word, by a hint, to humiliate her, or even to fall short of the fullest respect a woman could look for."

How could you not like Vronksy after reading that?!

Vronsky does have very strong principles.

Gladys
09-10-2012, 04:33 AM
As I read, my high opinion of Anna diminished as my estimation of Vronsky rose. In the end he had few good options.

Gladys
09-10-2012, 04:42 AM
As I read, my high opinion of Anna diminished as my estimation of Vronsky rose. In the end he had few good options.

kelby_lake
09-11-2012, 10:32 AM
As I read, my high opinion of Anna diminished as my estimation of Vronsky rose. In the end he had few good options.

True but it was his fault in the first place! Anna at least tried to resist him.