MrMack
05-02-2006, 12:46 PM
It seems to me that many of the analyses of Romeo and Juliet which deal with the classical "tragic flaw" determine that the teenagers are impulsive or rash. I have a couple problems with this analysis: 1) They are not the only characters guilty of rash behavior [Friar Lawrence and Tybalt come to mind], and 2) teenagers (and many adults who never grew up) are by nature impulsive. Life is not a chess match for many of us. How can that which is natural be considered a flaw?
I believe rather than rashness, we can attribute the downfall of these two young lovers to their secretive behavior. Neither one tells their parents of their love or of their marriage. We never see Romeo speak directly to his parents at all, and Juliet may speak with her parents, but she never tells them what is really going on. In fact, after the falling out with Lord Capulet over her refusal to marry Paris, Juliet feels free to lie to her father. Secrecy has grown into dishonesty: "Where have you been gadding...?" Capulet asks her.
She responds, "Where I have learned me to repent the sin / Of disobedient opposition . . .. / Henceforth I am ever ruled by you."
This failure to deal openly with their parents likely comes about from fear of their parents' reactions. Clearly the families are at war. Likely the parents would not approve of their love nor their marriage. And if we pursue this line of thought, I suppose we could as likely attribute their demise to their lack of courage as we could their failure to communicate. But fear of one's parents' reactions seems almost as natural as rash decisions in the teenage mind, so I find myself returning to the original thought I have stated above which is that the weakness of character we find in these two young heroes is that they will not tell their parents what is going on in their hearts. I used to be concerned that this analysis also reflected a natural state of the teenage heart and mind. But I have taken enough informal polls of teenagers to feel pretty sure that only about half of teenagers behave like Romeo and Juliet. The other half have at least one parent with whom they will share everything, at least one parent with whom they will share what is in their hearts.
So, I'm left wondering how many of the readers here agree with me. If we must assign a flaw to these lovers--if we believe that Shakespeare was following an Aristotelian model of tragedy, in other words--is it fair to say that these two teenagers weakness was their failure to communicate with their parents?
I believe rather than rashness, we can attribute the downfall of these two young lovers to their secretive behavior. Neither one tells their parents of their love or of their marriage. We never see Romeo speak directly to his parents at all, and Juliet may speak with her parents, but she never tells them what is really going on. In fact, after the falling out with Lord Capulet over her refusal to marry Paris, Juliet feels free to lie to her father. Secrecy has grown into dishonesty: "Where have you been gadding...?" Capulet asks her.
She responds, "Where I have learned me to repent the sin / Of disobedient opposition . . .. / Henceforth I am ever ruled by you."
This failure to deal openly with their parents likely comes about from fear of their parents' reactions. Clearly the families are at war. Likely the parents would not approve of their love nor their marriage. And if we pursue this line of thought, I suppose we could as likely attribute their demise to their lack of courage as we could their failure to communicate. But fear of one's parents' reactions seems almost as natural as rash decisions in the teenage mind, so I find myself returning to the original thought I have stated above which is that the weakness of character we find in these two young heroes is that they will not tell their parents what is going on in their hearts. I used to be concerned that this analysis also reflected a natural state of the teenage heart and mind. But I have taken enough informal polls of teenagers to feel pretty sure that only about half of teenagers behave like Romeo and Juliet. The other half have at least one parent with whom they will share everything, at least one parent with whom they will share what is in their hearts.
So, I'm left wondering how many of the readers here agree with me. If we must assign a flaw to these lovers--if we believe that Shakespeare was following an Aristotelian model of tragedy, in other words--is it fair to say that these two teenagers weakness was their failure to communicate with their parents?